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Parenting

Marriage finances for the modern era: a proposal

My wife and I got married 2 years ago today. It’s been a wonderful ride! Looking back, one decision that’s worked out well for us is how we manage our finances. As I think it’s a model that could work well for most couples, improving both happiness and financial health, I wanted to tell you about it.

I subscribe to the notion that marriage is a partnership. It isn’t about merging two into one – it’s about two individuals planning the rest of their lives together.

At first we considered the traditional “share everything” approach to marriage finances: funnel everything into and out of a single joint account. While still the most socially acceptable choice, for two upwardly mobile professionals with individual wants and needs, it seemed to lack flexibility. On the flip side, keeping everything independent as we did prior to marriage wouldn’t scale for the sorts of long term planning we wanted to do, like buying a house or having kids.

We ended up going with a halfway approach: we kept our individual accounts, and added a shared joint account to which we contribute a percentage of our paychecks every month (say, 60%). A percentage makes more sense than a fixed dollar amount because it scales to life’s changes as they come along: if one of our startups fail or we became pregnant, the working one would share more of the load. Most payroll providers offer options for percentage contributions, so this is both easy and automatic.

This system has worked out great for us because it takes the contention out of minor everyday financial decisions, while keeping our sights on long term planning. If Heather wants to buy some new shoes or I the latest crowd-funded board game, we use our individual accounts. That 3d printer we’ve had our eyes on? Shared ( pitter patter my heart ). A big purchase on the horizon? We’ll start contributing a higher percentage to the pot.

With how much you hear about couples fighting over money issues, and how natural and effortless this system seems to us, I wanted to share it with couples looking for alternatives to the norm.

How do you manage your finances after marriage? Any other marriage tips to share? I’d love to chat about it with you over at Hacker News.

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Startups

The mathematics of team productivity

When it comes to growing the productivity of a software engineering team, I believe there are four basic types of engineers: Adders, Subtracters, Multipliers, and Dividers. I find this framework helpful during hiring as well as determining when to let someone go.

Adders are your standard, talented engineers. They learn and grow over time, striving to improve themselves and their code. They add to your team’s productivity by being team players and strivers of excellence.

Subtracters are your below average performers. They complete what is assigned to them, and perhaps even do good work from time to time, but they subtract from the overall productivity of the team. Subtracters write code that must be refactored later, don’t stay current, and generally aren’t passionate about software development. Subtracters can become adders given time and a culture of code reviews or pairing, but you must already have enough adders and multipliers on your team for this to work.

Multipliers are your superstar engineers. They are not only talented, but they level up the whole team. They’re your evangelists of good practices and the ones that the rest of your engineers look to when they have a challenging problem. This is the engineer who stays up late working on a tricky bug, participates in hackathons, and is the first person you go to for the low down on the latest hot technology. They literally multiply the productivity of your entire team through their leadership and upward momentum.

Dividers are those engineers that rot the productivity of your team. They take several forms, but usually as some sort of attitude or behavioral problem. Perhaps they have a toxic attitude, are a crusher of new ideas, or are otherwise disruptive to the rest of your team. They usually get hired because they’re incredibly talented, but they take a group of adders and multipliers and divide their productivity. These are the folks you want to avoid hiring at all costs, but are sometimes the hardest to fetter out during the typical engineering interview. This is why I place the most weight on attitude and culture metrics when hiring engineers, but it’s still a challenge.

How do you avoid hiring dividers? I’d love to hear your thoughts on Hacker News.


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Thanks to my friend Aamir who first told me about this helpful framework.